All Scars Are Healable: Nothing Needs To Be Permanently Wounded
Introduction
“Not all scars are healable.”
That’s what I’ve heard many times, but I’m inclined to disagree. Every single scar is always healable. Mental and emotional trauma leaves wounds that need healing, and for some people, it doesn’t heal very well, so they call it a scar. It isn’t easy healing these types of trauma, and the experience of trying to do so can convince people that they’re not meant to heal it and should just accept it.
Except, there are many ways wounds and scars can heal. It’s just a matter of finding what works for you, and sometimes, that can take quite a bit of trying new things.
What Is the Point in Healing Scars?
It’s completely understandable to give up trying to heal your trauma when everything you’ve tried just doesn’t work, especially if you feel like you’ve tried everything you know of.
But if you’ve hit a wall in your healing, it’s not because you’re not meant to heal. It’s because you’ve hit a block in the healing process that needs to be understood in order for you to move forward, an inner understanding that still needs to be seen by you.
Being willing to see what you haven’t yet will open doors and help you move forward in ways that will bring you closer to your goals. Continually moving through your blocks will eventually lead you to receive what you need, and the entire journey will have been so worth it.
How Do I See the Opportunities I Need?
The first suggestion is one people don’t usually like to hear, that there is likely an option right in front of you that you’re not considering, and therefore not seeing as a possible solution yet.
If talking to someone hasn’t been tried yet, that would be the first thing to do. You’ll either realize that’s exactly what you needed, or if it’s not, you’ll need to be willing to listen for any suggestions they offer that might guide you in a different direction that isn’t what they are consciously suggesting. Sometimes people say things that spark an idea they didn’t even mean to give you.
Sometimes the thing you try first, second, or tenth isn’t meant to be the thing that works… It’s meant to be the stepping stone that leads you to the thing that does. And I’ll be honest, sometimes there can be quite a number of stepping stones.
But that doesn’t mean they didn’t work. It just means you’re still being led to something you don’t yet have knowledge of yet, something that will work.
Healing Is Like a Puzzle
While you’re on the path to finding the support that helps you heal fully, the first thing you try likely won’t be the one that checks all the boxes. To learn and heal all the things you uniquely require to reach your goals, you’ll need to go through a few different support systems and teachers.
Each thing you try is another piece of the puzzle, until you reach the solution that completes it. That final piece becomes the support you had been looking for all along.
However, the healing and learning you experienced through everything else you tried was equally important, because it set up your healing and understanding in a way that allowed you to fully receive the final support that helped it all come together.
In most cases, the final solution wouldn’t have worked nearly as well if the others hadn’t come first.There is a divine order to everything, and nothing is by chance.
Conclusion
There are things in life that are always showing you the direction to go, even if they’re hard to see at times. That doesn’t mean things need to be cut off. It just means a new perspective is needed, and some time for things to open up. There’s so much help and support out there, and you are never alone in that.
Things will open up, in time. With patience, and with trust.
Helpful Affirmations
“I am open to see the options in front of me.”
“ I am willing to stay in a place of trust that life is leading me to exactly what I need.”
Try This Today
Think of something in your life where you thought things would never sort out, and remember the moment when it all finally did. This is the process that is happening with every situation faced.
Wishing you love, health & harmony
Janette
